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來源描述：	<p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;text-align:center;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#FFFFFF;background-color:#A30911;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"> 02 </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;text-align:center;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">孩子厭學(xué)情緒的高發(fā)期</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;text-align:center;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">告訴孩子他在為誰、為什么而學(xué)習(xí)</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">四、五年級(jí)是孩子厭學(xué)情緒的高發(fā)期，很多孩子開始討厭學(xué)習(xí)，討厭寫作業(yè)，甚至對(duì)父母常說的“要好好學(xué)習(xí)”等話也會(huì)表現(xiàn)出強(qiáng)烈的反感。</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">為什么會(huì)出現(xiàn)這種情況呢？</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">首先，這與孩子的自我意識(shí)形成和思維能力的發(fā)展有關(guān)。</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">在一年級(jí)到三年級(jí)的時(shí)候，孩子會(huì)更多地遵從家長和老師的意見，從不會(huì)過多去想“為什么”，他們認(rèn)為家長和老師的話就是真理。但是，到了四年級(jí)后，孩子的思維能力迅速發(fā)展，他們開始有了自己的獨(dú)立思維，他們開始思考：我為什么要學(xué)習(xí)？學(xué)習(xí)不好能怎樣呢？</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">由于自我意識(shí)剛剛出現(xiàn)，這時(shí)候的孩子固執(zhí)地認(rèn)為，自己可以解決所有的問題。這時(shí)，父母的嘮叨和命令不僅會(huì)令孩子感到厭煩，而且會(huì)給他們一種錯(cuò)誤的信息：學(xué)習(xí)是一件很艱苦的事情，他在為父母而學(xué)習(xí)。在這種錯(cuò)誤信息的感染下，孩子就會(huì)產(chǎn)生厭學(xué)情緒。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">●</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"> 其次，這與父母不了解小學(xué)階段知識(shí)的難度發(fā)展規(guī)律有關(guān)。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;font-family:-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "font-size:17px;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">到了四、五年級(jí)，學(xué)習(xí)難度不斷加大，很多孩子都會(huì)感覺到對(duì)學(xué)習(xí)力不從心。如果父母還總是不理解孩子，甚至是斥責(zé)、打罵孩子，那孩子只能是厭惡學(xué)習(xí)，從而產(chǎn)生很強(qiáng)烈的厭學(xué)情緒。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">做父母的，不管你的孩子正處于哪個(gè)年齡段，你要想教育好他們，必須提前了解他們的心理。做父母的就應(yīng)該提前向孩子灌輸“學(xué)習(xí)是他自己的事情”這個(gè)觀念。這樣，對(duì)于思維正在高速發(fā)展的四、五年級(jí)孩子來說，這將會(huì)促使他們的成績穩(wěn)步前進(jìn)，而不是厭學(xué)。</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">父母要對(duì)孩子多些鼓勵(lì)，少些抱怨；多些表揚(yáng)，少些批評(píng)。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">孩子在四年級(jí)之前，或者在讀四、五年級(jí)的過程中，父母還應(yīng)該提前知道哪些知識(shí)呢？或者說，父母應(yīng)該如何對(duì)待孩子呢？</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法一：讓孩子知道，學(xué)習(xí)是他自己的事情。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;font-family:-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "font-size:17px;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">很多的父母在孩子的學(xué)習(xí)上花了大量的心思，但是，容易讓孩子產(chǎn)生誤解：他是在為父母而學(xué)習(xí)。父母越是逼著孩子去認(rèn)真學(xué)習(xí)，越可能給孩子創(chuàng)造了拒絕學(xué)習(xí)、反駁父母的機(jī)會(huì)。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">　</span></span> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;"><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;">案例：</strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <blockquote style="margin:1em 0px;padding:4px 0px 0px 10px;border-left:3px solid #DBDBDB;color:#3E3E3E;font-size:16px;max-width:100%;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:15px;color:#888888;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">一天，媽媽下班回家，看到曉宇拿著課本在客廳里一邊看電視，一邊看書。她沒有像往常那樣勃然大怒，逼著孩子回到自己的房間里去看書，而是跟孩子打過招呼后，就開始忙自己的家務(wù)。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;font-size:14px;color:#888888;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:SimHei;">一會(huì)兒，曉宇沉不住氣了，跑過來對(duì)媽媽說:“媽媽，我們明天要考語文?！眿寢尅班拧绷艘宦暎蜎]再理他。他還在繼續(xù)試探媽媽，說：“可是，媽媽，我還沒有復(fù)習(xí)完呢！”媽媽還是“嗯”了一聲，又開始忙自己的事情。曉宇有點(diǎn)失望地對(duì)媽媽說：“媽媽，你怎么不理我呀？你是不是不關(guān)心我了呀？”</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-left:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:15px;color:#888888;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">媽媽放下手里的家務(wù)，認(rèn)真對(duì)他說：“你似乎希望我逼你去看書。媽媽當(dāng)然希望你能考出好成績了，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">可是學(xué)習(xí)是你自己的事情，要不要去看書，在哪看書，是應(yīng)該由你自己來決定的事情。</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">”從此以后，曉宇對(duì)媽媽的態(tài)度深信不疑了。</span></span> </p> </blockquote> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">當(dāng)孩子試探父母時(shí)，父母的態(tài)度一定要堅(jiān)定，說不參與就不參與。如果面對(duì)曉宇的試探，媽媽用責(zé)備的口氣對(duì)曉宇說“再不好好看書，就會(huì)考試不及格”“考不好會(huì)被老師懲罰的”……那么，曉宇會(huì)繼續(xù)與媽媽玩這種“你越管我，我越不好好學(xué)”的游戲。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">●  </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法二：告訴孩子——你要為理想而學(xué)習(xí)</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">現(xiàn)在有很多的家長這樣勸孩子好好學(xué)習(xí)：“如果你不好好學(xué)習(xí)，將來就找不到好工作！”“如果你不好好學(xué)習(xí)，將來就娶不到媳婦（找不到好老公）！”“如果你不好好學(xué)習(xí)，你將來就會(huì)成為社會(huì)最底層的人，就要過很艱苦的生活！”……</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">也許父母們?cè)噲D用自己的經(jīng)歷和經(jīng)驗(yàn)來說服孩子要好好學(xué)習(xí)，然而，父母們卻忽略了這一點(diǎn)：四年級(jí)的孩子，正處于思維的高速發(fā)展期，他們已經(jīng)有了自己的思維，不再像小時(shí)候那樣，父母說什么，他們就信什么。作為父母，我們應(yīng)該告訴孩子，他們要為自己的理想而學(xué)習(xí)。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">在幫助孩子樹立理想時(shí)，家長要特別注意一點(diǎn)，一定不要把自己的思想強(qiáng)加于孩子身上，例如強(qiáng)迫孩子把某個(gè)不喜歡的職業(yè)當(dāng)做自己的理想。而是</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">要根據(jù)孩子的特長和愛好，幫助孩子樹立理想。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法三：父母不要太關(guān)注孩子的學(xué)習(xí)成績</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">生活中，我們常常聽到家長這樣教育孩子：“如果這次你考好了，你想要什么，媽媽就給你買什么?！薄翱剂诉@么少的分，我都替你感到丟人，你還好意思要這要那！”……這種教育只能是害了他們，或者使他們變得越來越蠻橫不講理，或者使他們的成績大幅下降，郁郁寡歡，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">甚至走向抑郁或自卑。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">每一位家長都應(yīng)該用平常心來看待孩子的成績。</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">學(xué)習(xí)是學(xué)生的職責(zé)</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">，學(xué)習(xí)好是每個(gè)學(xué)生都應(yīng)該做到的事情。家長不要因?yàn)楹⒆拥某煽兒枚凑醋韵?，或者用各種各樣的物質(zhì)來獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)她，這樣只會(huì)讓你的孩子有個(gè)錯(cuò)覺：學(xué)習(xí)是為家長學(xué)的。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">對(duì)待成績不好的孩子，家長首先不能打罵他們，其次要鼓勵(lì)他們，幫他們分析成績不好的原因，幫他們找到適合他們的學(xué)習(xí)方法，并告訴他們：“只要學(xué)習(xí)一直在進(jìn)步，成績是次要的。”</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">家長還要為孩子創(chuàng)造一個(gè)輕松地學(xué)習(xí)氛圍，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">如與孩子一起討論學(xué)習(xí)中遇到的問題、與孩子一起讀書、一起學(xué)習(xí)……不要?jiǎng)硬粍?dòng)就問孩子成績</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">、放學(xué)后就催促孩子去做作業(yè)，這樣只能讓孩子有種錯(cuò)覺：他是為成績而活。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> </span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">● </span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">方法四：父母對(duì)孩子不要太過嚴(yán)厲</span></strong></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:#3F3F3F;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">在小學(xué)一至三年級(jí)，孩子是沒有理性思維能力的，父母要求什么，他們就會(huì)做什么，父母說什么，他們就會(huì)聽什么。此時(shí)，父母的嚴(yán)厲可以起到作用。</span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;color:#3F3F3F;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">但到了四、五年級(jí)，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">孩子有了自己的理性思維能力，有了自我意識(shí)</span></strong><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">，當(dāng)父母再嚴(yán)厲地要求他們?nèi)W(xué)習(xí)、再規(guī)定他們每次考試必須達(dá)到的名次時(shí)，孩子就會(huì)覺得學(xué)習(xí)是件很苦的事情，從而對(duì)學(xué)習(xí)產(chǎn)生厭煩情緒。</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">對(duì)于那些還沒有上學(xué)，或者剛剛讀小學(xué)的孩子來說，父母們不要急于教會(huì)他們多少知識(shí)，也不要要求他們考多么好的名次，</span><strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">學(xué)習(xí)興趣和學(xué)習(xí)能力的培養(yǎng)才是最重要的。</span></strong><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">關(guān)于對(duì)10歲之前孩子的教育，一位兒童心理學(xué)家總結(jié)的很好：</span></span> </p> <p style="margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-size:16px;color:#3E3E3E;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <br /> </p> <blockquote style="margin:1em 0px;padding:4px 0px 0px 10px;border-left:3px solid #DBDBDB;color:#3E3E3E;font-size:16px;max-width:100%;letter-spacing:0.544px;text-align:justify;white-space:normal;widows:1;font-family:微軟雅黑;line-height:25.6px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"> <p style="margin:0px 8px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-left:0px;max-width:100%;clear:both;min-height:1em;line-height:2em;box-sizing:border-box !important;"> <strong style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;"><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;font-size:14px;color:#888888;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-family:SimHei;">多問快樂，少問學(xué)習(xí)；</span></strong><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;font-size:15px;color:#888888;"><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important;" /> <span style="font-size:14px;font-family:SimHei;">多問“這次考試中，你細(xì)心了嗎”，少問“這次考試你考了多少名啊”；</span><br data-filtered="filtered" style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word 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